Introduction
A Mediator (INFP) is someone who possesses
the Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Prospecting personality traits. These
rare personality types tend to be quiet, open-minded, and imaginative, and they
apply a caring and creative approach to everything they do.
On the outside, Mediators (INFPs) may seem
quiet or even shy. But they often have vibrant, passionate inner lives. Because
they make up such a small portion of the population, people with this
personality type may sometimes feel misunderstood or out of step with the
world. Fortunately, their caring nature can help them create and sustain deep
relationships with their loved ones.
Mediator (INFP) personality
Mediators value authenticity, empathy, and
harmony. These personalities tend to act with the best of intentions, and they
are rightly proud of this trait. That said, they may feel isolated or
discouraged when other people don’t share their idealism.
All that is gold does not glitter; not all
those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither; deep roots
are not reached by the frost.
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ J. R. R. TOLKIEN
Speaking Their Truth
Many Mediators are curious about the depths
of human nature, and they often make an effort to understand other people’s
true feelings. This can make them capable of great empathy. It can also enable
them to communicate in ways that are sensitive, original, and quite moving.
Perhaps because of these strengths,
Mediators tend to crave opportunities for creative self-expression. It comes as
no surprise that many famous Mediators are poets, writers, and actors. People
with this personality type often enjoy dreaming up all sorts of stories and
possibilities.
Mediators have a talent for
self-expression. They may reveal their innermost thoughts and secrets through
metaphors and fictional characters.
By using their imaginations in this way,
Mediators can explore their inner nature and their place in the world. That
said, they can have a tendency to daydream and fantasize rather than take
action. If they don’t act on their dreams and ideas, Mediators are likely to
end up feeling frustrated or unfulfilled.
In Search of a Calling
Mediators may feel directionless or stuck
unless they connect with a sense of purpose for their lives. For many
Mediators, this purpose has something to do with helping and uplifting others.
Empathetic by nature, these personalities may feel other people’s suffering as
if it were their own. This only strengthens their motivation to be of service.
Although Mediators might want to help
everyone, they may need to focus their attention and energy on one worthy cause
at a time. Otherwise, they can become so overwhelmed by all the problems they
can’t fix that they’re tempted to give up on even trying. This is a sad sight
for Mediators’ friends, who often depend on their hopeful outlook.
Fortunately, like flowers in the spring,
Mediators’ creativity and idealism can bloom even after the darkest of seasons.
Although they know the world will never be perfect, Mediators still care about
making it better however they can. This quiet belief in doing the right thing
may explain why these personalities so often inspire compassion, kindness, and
beauty wherever they go.
35% EXTRAVERTED 65% INTROVERTED
60% INTUITIVE 40% OBSERVANT
36% THINKING 64% FEELING
29% JUDGING 71% PROSPECTING
26% ASSERTIVE 74% TURBULENT
